It’s always painful losing those who were closest to us. It’s never easy letting go either. The saying goes, friends come and go, but I don’t find that comforting at all or particularly easing the reality of a friendship breakup.
I’ll never understand why and I just need to accept that that is ok! Is my life completely ruined by it? No. Do I wish it never happened? Of course! Is there much I can do to change the way the person feels? No, and you can’t force someone to be friends with you.
I’m such an extrovert and it’s always been a battle of mine to just have people to like me and accept me for who I am. But I shouldn’t need to feel like that and should feel comfortable in my own skin! It’s so hard when you feel so vulnerable and when it’s times like this, it’s even worse for people like me! What have I done? Did I offend her?
Mind you, what becomes important and your priorities when you’re older is really those closest to you, your family. I barely have time for my beautiful close friends as it is. Friendships are two way streets, you have to meet in the middle – that’s where failure in friendships are sometimes inevitable.
Life is short. Be with those who lift you up and who bring joy to your life and happiness with them. Friendships are special, but really your family is forever!
Life is so good and I am truly blessed to have a beautiful little fambam and people who support and lift me up on the daily ✌️🙏🏼